Re: Here come Wally and Mary Ellen

Boron Elgar <boron_elgar@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
> wrote in
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> Really, though, the difficulty here is between you and your husband.
> That is something you have to work out between yourselves. You have no
> more nor less responsibility as a host than he does. If demands are
> being made that you find burdensome and offensive, let him know. Set
> the clock for 3am.
> 

Yeah.  I think we got some of it cleared up last night.  I also
recognized that I'm overreacting because of the way my mother used to
pressure me to appear normal even though the family was incredibly
dysfunctional.  So I should be yelling at her instead of him. 
Unfortunately it's about 30 years too late, and I seem to recall that
yelling at her was pretty ineffective anyway.  Whereas when I yell at
him, he hears me.  I wish I could've been calmer.  I will apologize for
my presentation of point of view later this morning.  The POV was okay,
but the presentation wasn't. 

-- 
Dover