On Mon, 05 May 2008 14:29:33 GMT, "Lesmond" <lesmond@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
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wrote:
>On Sun, 04 May 2008 22:06:09 -0500, QueBarbara wrote:
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>>On Sun, 04 May 2008 18:56:14 -0600, Greg Goss <gossg@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
> wrote:
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>>>I reach that grade of friend****p better with women than with men. Men
>>>have great difficulty revealing vulnerabilities to each other.
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>>I'm the opposite. I've had a hard time trusting women since being
>>ostracized from two cliques, once in the 7th grade and once in the
>>11th.
>
>I had my problems in 1st, 4th and 8th grades, with the 8th grade one
being
>the worst...yes total ostracization.. This is why I take the bullying of
my
>boy so seriously.
>
>But it has never put me off women. Oh...you know what I mean.
I forgot, it happened again at my first job in Houston back in '90-91.
That put me off all women for a while, until I learned how to
distinguish which ones were still into playing those games and which
ones were passed that. There is a clique where I work now, among the
secretarial staff, and we recently had a couple of good secretaries
leave because they were tired of the b.s.
>The friends I
>make now are women because mommies are the folks I spend my time with.
>
>Unless I'm hanging out with Chad in the Star Wars room.
Finding women with similar interests as me is hard. I'm weird.
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QueBarbara
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