Re: how many of you have actually modified your behavior in recent years?

Someone  wrote:

> x-no-archive: yes
>
>for nearly 2 decades under a variety of names, i have read ASL and
>posted to it, but i remain as lonely and unfulfilled as i was when i
>started.

Does this surprise you?

>has anybody found it within himself to change for the better?  I wish
>i could, but it seems i am lacking something vital. 

Perhaps what you lack is the realization that nothing out there will
fill whatever hole you feel you have. The "feel you have" part is the
key. Stop looking for something and focus more on the moment.
Recapture the wonderment of youth by loosing yourself in simplicity.
Quiet your mind and ...